[update below]
Isn't there still time to join in Rachel Held Evans's "Rally to Restore Unity—a week-long celebration of Christian unity and fundraising effort for Charity:Water?"
How do you join in when you hate the word "Christian"? No, as a kid, I didn't say this:
As a Jew, I had been led to feel cold chills at the mention of his name. Is this strange? For a thousand years Jews have lived among people who interpreted Christ’s will to mean floggings and burnings, ‘gentleman’s agreements,’ and closed universities....
I think very few Gentiles realize that even the most Americanized Jew usually shudders when he sees a church, a cross, or even the name of Christ in print. It is, of course, a shudder of fear; but it gives rise to hate immediately…. I have almost never met a Jew who wasn’t anti-Christian.
No, that's something that Joy Davidman wrote in some of her letters. But since we're being personal, let me tell you what I was made to sing as a kid, as a missionary's kid, as a Christian MK:
Our parents heard the call of God
And followed His command
To preach the Gospel true and pure
Throughout a distant land
So we too have followed
And in this place called home
We too are sharing in the task
To make Christ Jesus known
For we are MKs
We love to share it...
The one who wrote those lyrics (and got us little kid MKs singing that when I was growing up in my home called Vietnam) was one of my missionary aunts. Like Joy Davidman (when married to Mr. Gresham), my missionary aunt was abused by her husband. I'm only bringing that up because she had the experience also that my own mother did. The men wore the label, "Christian."
But that's not necessarily the only reason I hate the word, Christian. Maybe I'll have to explain all of that another time. Today, while there's still the rally for unity going on, I'd just like to remember that Jesus was not a Christian. When he gave that new commandment, he wasn't talking to Christians. When he said the sign of following him was unity in love, well, that's right, he wasn't talking about getting Christians not to abuse each other or their wives or their little kids. And he never used the word, Christian either. He didn't even use the word in Greek that we get our English word from.
The point I'm trying to get at is that the word Christian automatically leaves out Jews who are not Christians. Ironically, the first Jews to whom Jesus gave his rally to unity for were not even believers in Christian doctrines. The closest followers of Jesus were, like him, all Jews. And all of them were doubters in the resurrection, according to the gospels of Jesus. Oh, and those gospels? Not written by Christians either. So for Christians to have a unity rally, that doesn't include non-believing Jews, is something, isn't it? Such a rally doesn't call on atheists or Muslims or Mormons or agnostics either. Unity is for Christians only? Well, I guess that's sort of a start. But that's sort of the way my life started too in a Christian family. Now what? Well, I think about the words of jesus a lot. And here's my little sign:
(sorry for the scowl. it's the sun in my eyes. or i'm thinking about the tv show survivor where the Christian guy throws his teammates under the bus because he heard some message from Jesus about love. and why are there so many Bible reading God talking Christians on the show this season?)
[update:
It's probably helpful to know that this missionary kid who hated the word Christian is still growing up. He's now more often able to say, "I don't love that word." Once he was an atheist in the closet; now he's most days a theist openly. For Mother's Day, his mother is coming over for dinner, with her husband (this mk's dad), and that man has recently been making changes. The retired missionary has been making amends, confessing past abuses, and seeking restitution, forgiveness, restoration, fulness in relationships, and reconciliations where possible. The relationship that the mk has with his Christian father is in repair (more that it ever was). The family breathes easier. The family breathes easier even though that daddy has six cancerous brain tumors, a spine tumor, and stage 4 lung cancer, "incurable and untreatable," says the MD. The phrase Holy Spirit has taken on new meanings in this family. What seemed like impossible rifts between people are being overcome. There's something like the unity rally, but just not so public, going on here. At this kid does smile often more too:
progress. not perfection.]
This blog has been a way to interact with some of you around "subjects" that Aristotle has taught too many of us in the West, even today, to disparage: females, rhetoric, and translation. Much recovery yet to do.
Showing posts with label how love wins. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how love wins. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Love Wins: Dorothy L. Sayers
I would love to hear what Dorothy L. Sayers' Lord Peter Wimsey would say about John Piper. Lord Peter who finally won his bride by bending his will and his pride, to apologize to her for his sense of privilege that made him think she would eventually give in to him if he just pursued her long enough. Lord Peter who after saving her from the gallows (at the end of [Strong Poison] the novel you quoted), gave her life back to her two novels later by letting her risk it in the search for truth, as any male hero of a novel would. Lord Peter, who finally won Harriet's heart by treating her as his full, functional equal in every area of his life.
Lord Peter would have only one word to say about a man who would counsel a woman to submit "for a season" to being abused by a man. "Cad." It's an old word, and perhaps one that should be revived.--Kristen
Thanks to Kristen for the insightful and imaginative comment. She inspires us to see that Dorothy L. Sayers, like Rob Bell (whose recent book I've not yet read), writes to suggest how Love Wins. In fact, not only does Sayers take time to give real life to Lord Peter Wimsey she also gives a few moments and words to fleshing out just what this sort of love means, how love wins. So here we listen again. It's not a simple sound bite but instead a long excerpt I'm including here, one in which we might truly imagine John Piper confronting Peter Wimsey, or at least Piper reading Sayers's novels and confronting the author about her Wimsey. You'll overhear her addressing her reader as "My dear," at which point I've interpolated a phrase (e.g., "My dear [evangelical reader]") in order for us all to imagine that it's the evangelical reader Piper with whom she's speaking. So stay tuned even through to her hell word below (but don't miss that fact that her writing here is on love, that it continues on to be musings Sayers offers us on how love wins). This considerable bit is from Sayers's chapter, "The Love of the Creature" in her book, Mind of the Maker:
IX. THE LOVE OF THE CREATURE
It may be objected that the analogy we have been examining derives from the concept of Platonic archetype, and is therefore unacceptable to those who reject Platonic ideal philosophy. That way of putting it is, however, not quite accurate; in fact, it puts the cart before the horse. To the creative artist (as we have seen) the archetype is not an a priori theory, but an experience. From this experience he draws his analogy direct, and by its means illustrates and gives form to his philosophy, so that the philosophy is seen to derive from the analogy, and not viec versa. If at any points it coincides with Platonic or Christian philosophy, it does so as an independent witness. The experience is, of course, a particular experience -- that of the human creator, and it is irreclevant for the analytical and uncreative critic to object to it on the ground that it is not his experience....
To the human maker, therefore, accustomed to look within himself for the extra-temporal archetype and pattern of his own creative work, it will also be natural to look beyond himself for the external archetype and pattern of his own creative personality ... [to the creative] Person in whose image he is made, as his own work is made in the image of himself.
At this point, however, he encounters certain difficulties which we shall have to consider, if we are not to be led away into undue literalism by our very natural anxiety to make our analogy go on all-fours.
The whole of existence is held to be the work of the Divine Creator -- everything that there is, including not only the human maker and his human public, but all other entitites "visible and invisible" that may exist outside this universe. Consequently, whereas the human writer obtains his response from other minds, outside and independent of his own, God's response comes only from His own creatures. This is as though a book were written to be read by the characters within it. And further: the universe is not a finished work. Every mind within it is in the position of the audience sitting in the stalls and seeing the play for the first time. Or rather, every one of us is on the stage, performing a part in a play, of which we have not seen either the script of any synopsis of the ensuing acts.
This, it may be remarked, is no unusual situation, even among human actors. It is said of a famous actress that for many years she played Lady Macbeth with great success, without having the faintest idea what the play was about or how it ended.... At the most, perhaps, towards the end of his life, he may see a few episodes in which he figured run through in the pages of contemporary history. And from the completed episodes of the past he may gather, if he is intelligent and attentive, some indication of the author's purpose.
There is one episode in particular to which Christianity draws his attention. The leading part in this was played, it is alleged, by the Author, who presents it as a brief epitome of the plan of the whole work. If we ask, "What kind of play is this that we are acting" the answer put forward is: "Well, it is this kind of play." And examining the plot of it, we observe at once that if anybody in this play has his feelings pared, it is certainly not the Author.
This is perhaps what we should expect when we consider that a wrok of creation is a work of love, and that love is the most ruthless of all the passions, sparing neither itself, nor its object, nor the obstales that stand in its way. The word "love" is by no so over-weighted with associations, from the most trifling to the most tremendous, that it is difficult to use it so as to convey a precise meaning to the reader; but here agin the analogy we have chosen may be of service.
Two popular interpretations of the word we can dismiss at once: the creator's love for his work is not a greedy possessiveness; he never desires to subdue his work to himself but always to subdue himself to his work. The more genuinely creative he is, the more he will want his work to develop in accordance with its own nature, and to stand independent of himself. Well-meaning readers who try to identify the writer with his characters or to excavate the author's personality and opinions from his books are frequently astonished by the ferocious rudeness with which the author himself salutes these efforts at reabsorbing his work into himself. They are an assualt upon the independence of his creatures, which he very properly resents. Painful misunderstanding of this kind may rive the foundations of social intercourse, and produce explosions which seem quite out of proportion to their apparent causes.
"I have ordered old brandy; I know you adore old brandy.""What makes you think so?""Oh, I have read your books: I know Lord Peter is a great connosseur of old brandy.""He is; that needn't mean that I am.""Oh! I thought you must be, as he is.""What on earth have my tastes to do with his?"
It is quite possible that the author does like old brandy (though in this particular instance it happens not to agree with her). But what is intolerable is that the created being should be thus violently stripped of its own precious personality. The violence is none the less odious to the creator, for the ingratiating smirk with which it is offered. Nor is the offence any more excusable when it takes the form of endowing the creature with qualities, however amiable, which run contrary to the law of its being:
"I am sure Lord Peter will end up as a convinced Christian.""From what I know of him, nothing is more unlikely.""But as a Christian yourself, you must want him to be one.""He would be horribly embarrassed by any such suggestion.""But he's far too intelligent and far too nice, not to be a Christian.""My dear [evangelical reader], Peter is not the Ideal Man; he is an eighteenth-century Whig gentleman, born a little out of his time, and doubtful whether any claim to possess a soul is a rather vulgar piece of presumption.""I am disappointed.""I am afraid I can't help that."(No; you shall not impose either your will or mine upon my creature. He is what he is, I will work no irrelevant miracles upon him, either for propaganda, or to curry favour, or to establish the consistency of my own principles. He exists in his own right and not to please you. Hands off.)
Sometimes the suggestion to use force is accompanied by obliging offers of assistance. (Incidentally this type of petition must be extremely familiar to God Almighty.) Thus:
It will be seen that, although the writer's love is verily a jealous love, it is a jealousy for and not of his creatures. He will tolerate no interference either with them or between them and himself. But he does not desire that the creature's identity should be merged in his own, nor that his miraculous power should be invoked to wrest the creature from its proper nature."Couldn't you make Lord Peter go to the Antarctic and investigate a murder on an exploring expedition?""Now, from what you know of him, can you imagine his being inveigled into an Antarctic expedition, under any conceivable circumstances?""But it would be a new background -- I could give you lots of authentic material.""Thank you, you are very kind," (Get to gehenna out of this and write up your own confounded material. Leave my creature alone -- I will not "make" him do anything.)
....
Saturday, March 19, 2011
More Women in Hell
The title of this post is not talking about the hell that many women find themselves in here on earth. (My wife was just reading to me a few pages from Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls in which the author, Dr. Mary Pipher, remembers counseling an adolescent girl, who says, because of her father's abuse: "He had lots of ways to break a person's spirit.... my home life was hell.... Dad brought a girlfriend home and Mom tried to kill herself.") The hell in the title is the one that doctrine-conscious Christians are arguing over these days. Doctrine is important, they say. Which makes me wonder about women. Does the Bible say anything about women in hell?
Well, they'll be saved in childbearing, says one verse. Saved from hell? Maybe not, says Andreas J. Köstenberger in his CBMW article, "Saved Through Childbearing? A Fresh Look at 1 Timothy 2:15 Points to Protection from Satan’s Deception." He goes on to explain "saved" as "kept safe from the allurement of Satan" (who will go to the doctrinely-defined Hell) and "childbearing" as more, as also "adhering to, and finding fulfillment in, their Godgiven role centering on the family and the home":
In correct doctrine, literal hell does contain more women than men. But, to be sure, this is a literal reading of some teachers' doctrine. (Isn't it all interpretation, this doctrine, this literal hell?) Well, here it is, that so called correct doctrine:
Oh right. So hell is literal. But only if it's in the bible, and only if Jesus uses it to show us his love by it. So literal Hell doctrine is how love wins. And, well, we'll just have to figure out how women are saved later. In the mean time, they'll do better to be better in their homes (and don't worry if Father or Husband is making it hell for her).
Well, they'll be saved in childbearing, says one verse. Saved from hell? Maybe not, says Andreas J. Köstenberger in his CBMW article, "Saved Through Childbearing? A Fresh Look at 1 Timothy 2:15 Points to Protection from Satan’s Deception." He goes on to explain "saved" as "kept safe from the allurement of Satan" (who will go to the doctrinely-defined Hell) and "childbearing" as more, as also "adhering to, and finding fulfillment in, their Godgiven role centering on the family and the home":
1 Timothy 2:15 does not merely contain an obscure, situation-bound injunction for women in Timothy's Ephesus at the end of the first century A.D. It is grounded in the wise counsel of the Creator and pertains to the sphere of the outworking of our salvation in this life. How are women kept safe from the allurement of Satan? How are they to avoid falling into temptation as Eve, the mother of women, did? By adhering to, and finding fulfillment in, their Godgiven role centering on the family and the home.So is there no biblical discussion of women in hell? Isn't the doctrine of literal hell good for something? Timothy Keller writes that it is: "4. The doctrine of hell is important because it is the only way to know how much Jesus loved us and how much he did for us." Isn't that why it was so very very important for Jesus to make this doctrine of literal hell very very clear to women? Isn't that exactly how females knew how much Jesus loved them and how they were convinced of how much he did for them? Didn't he sit them down and make them read his doctrines on literal Hell?
In correct doctrine, literal hell does contain more women than men. But, to be sure, this is a literal reading of some teachers' doctrine. (Isn't it all interpretation, this doctrine, this literal hell?) Well, here it is, that so called correct doctrine:
MUHAMMAD: commanded his male followers to beat their disobedient wives. He gave men the right to beat their wives who persistently disobeyed them.
Sura 4:34 "As those you fear may be rebellious admonish, banish them to their couches, and beat them."
The above verse was revealed in connection with a woman who complained to Muhammad that her husband slapped her on the face, which was still marked by the slap. At first Muhammad said to her "Get even with him", but then added 'Wait until I think about it". Later on the above verse was revealed, and Muhammad added, 'We (He and the woman) wanted one thing, Allah wanted another.
The Hadith also said much about women:
Muhammad said that women are generally so evil, that they will make up the majority of people in to hell. Continuing with Bukhari,
Vol. 1, #301: "O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women). They [women] asked, "Why is it so, O Allah's Apostle?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands."
Bukhari Vol. 1, #28: "The Prophet said, "I was shown the Hell-fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?), he replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good done to them...."
Sahih Muslim says they are the minority in Paradise:
Volume 4, #6600: "Imran Husain reported that Allah's messenger said: Amongst the inmates of Paradise the women would form a minority."
By putting these two Hadith together, we find that Muhammad said that women were the minority in Paradise, and the majority in hell. Therefore it is not a statistical ratio due to the possibility that there are more women than men. Muhammad viewed women as more sinful than men. And the reason more women are in hell is because the women were ungrateful to their husbands!
Muhammad also declared that women are less intelligent than men:
Bukhari, Volume 1, #301:
"...Then he (Muhammad) passed by the women and said, "O women, give alms as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women)." they asked, "Why is it so O Allah's messenger?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you." The women asked, "O Allah's messenger, what is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence....."
Oh right. So hell is literal. But only if it's in the bible, and only if Jesus uses it to show us his love by it. So literal Hell doctrine is how love wins. And, well, we'll just have to figure out how women are saved later. In the mean time, they'll do better to be better in their homes (and don't worry if Father or Husband is making it hell for her).
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